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I'VE been reflecting on how our three Slimpodders - Darin, Becca and Dawn - have lost 12 stone between them and transformed themselves into athletes running in the London Marathon. Psychology has demonstrated that we take a lot of clues about who we feel ourselves to be by what we observe ourselves doing. We live up to what we do or don’t do.

 

If you never exercise because you never have, you become someone for whom exercise must automatically be a bad thing. If you step out of your normal you, and begin to do just a little more of what you didn’t used to do – exercise – you’ll begin to get a different feeling about yourself.

 

 The more you become someone who thinks of themselves as an athlete the more you will – and your behaviour will support your thoughts.

 

Here’s what I encourage. Every time you lace your trainers, think of yourself as an athlete. Because every time you do something that is intended to make you fitter or healthier, that’s what you are; someone competing to be better than you were.

 

I walked down a London street the other week behind a man who was probably in his eighties. He was tall but very bent over, and was moving along in a slow, shuffling kind of jog. And he was wearing a track suit.

 

For me, he was an inspiring example of someone having an athlete’s mindset. He was jogging so slowly women pushing buggies could have overtaken him, but the symbolism of dressing to exercise is probably what gets him to do it.

 

I found myself wondering who he imagines himself to be in his head when he puts on his tracksuit, and how that helps him enjoy his life more when he takes it off.

 

Turning yourself from a couch potato into an athlete isn’t going to be an overnight thing – but it’s not a sprint, what we’re after is a change that lasts. It’s also not a long distance race either.

If you knew that 18 months from now you might have moved from hating exercise to looking forward to running a marathon, wouldn’t you begin to Hoover just a little bit more vigorously tomorrow, or walk to the shops instead of drive, or take the stairs instead of the lift a couple of times a day?



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Becoming who you've always wanted to be

ONE of my favourite sayings is ‘The more something happens, the more it will.’ So the more you notice you’re eating differently, exercising, not being tempted by chocolate…the more you will. The reason this works so well is it’s simply using the way the mind works to solve the problem it’s causing you. Most people with weight issues have been primed over time to notice food a lot – and then the more they do the more they will. Slimpods just reverse this flow of attention.


As the weeks go by this new way of thinking becomes as much of a habit as the old way of thinking, and you’ll find that the change feels, well, like it’s not a change at all, it just feels natural to be that way. So because what’s changed is you, that change can be permanent. You become who you’ve always wanted to be.

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A little is better than nothing at all

I THINK one of the key things to recognise in the Thinking Slimmer approach is that you becoming slim is inevitable. It is going to happen, so it doesn’t have to be a pressurised race to get to your target.

Every day, doing more that takes you towards your target than takes you away from it, is victory. Some days you’ll be pretty close to perfect, and other days you won’t, but as long as each day you do something more than nothing then you’re still moving forward. And if you focus on your victories, rather than beat yourself up for your setbacks, then you’ll notice yourself having more good days than not.


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If you can change your shape you can change anything

WHEN you start listening to me on a Slimpod and you notice your eating choices changing without really thinking about it, or you’re starting to exercise because you feel like it, it begins to change how you feel about yourself. To feel like you’re in control of something you’ve never been in control of is a very powerful feeling, and if you can control your weight, what else could you achieve?

 Think about that. If we can help you have the body you want, who would you be then, and what could you do that you don’t feel is currently possible? If this change in you is possible, so is any other.


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Guide your brain to get you there

YOUR brain is tuned to reward. If it sees a good result for an action it gives you a nice chemical hit to encourage you to do it again, and if it sees a bad one it releases another chemical to stop you, or make you run away from it. Think about that with your weight loss. If you see yourself succeeding with your Slimpod – imagine looking ahead and seeing yourself look how you want to look – then you’ll get the nice chemicals and you’ll feel enthusiastic about what you’re doing to get there.

  If, however, you go on another diet and see ahead of you the same result as every other diet – you failing and maybe even getting fatter – then guess what your brain is going to do? Try to get you to save effort by demotivating you. No wonder you find yourself cheating. That’s why in every Slimpod there are suggestions about how you’re going to look – using your imagination to create an attractive future that guides your brain to release the chemicals that will get you there. The job’s done for you.


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Small steps on the road to success

GOALS work. Our brains tend to like things ahead of us to aim at, and the closer the better. It’s why often the goal of a cream cake in the next 30 seconds seems more desirable than fitting into your swimsuit in three months' time.

So it’s important, if the swimsuit is your goal, to make sure you have plenty of smaller steps along the way – and you’re making the rules, so if you want a goal that gets you from breakfast to lunch, then that’s perfectly ok.

A goal of having a small piece of chocolate at lunch may stop you wolfing a whole bar at elevenses, because if the brain knows the treat is out there in the foreseeable future it stops craving for it.


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Tell the world about your goals

HERE'S important advice when setting goals: Make your goals specific, achievable and realistic, and include a treat of some kind every day.

Write your goals down and tick them as you achieve them. With a BIG pen. And post them somewhere public.

We achieve our goals much more often if we commit them to paper and let other people know about them.

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